Just do it. I’ll tell you why later. Believe me you’ll thank me afterwards. Don’t fight the trends and don’t push against negative energy. Just let if flow through you or better yet past you and around you, do what you love, enjoy your life, have a good relationship, experiment with new things, learn about lytta vesicatoria and get all the health benefits as possible.
Everyone has different opinions about just about everything so believe in what you believe in and let others believe in what they believe in. ( Even though you know that they are wrong. ) It’s hard to do but just do it.
They have their path and you have yours. You can’t really help them much on their path but you can definitely help yourself by remaining positive and keeping your energy high and within yourself. Don’t waste your energy by arguing with someone who is clearly lost.